I hold on to a huge amount of the past; I find it offers a reassuring sense of continuity. That said, I think there are things I’ve had to let go of, but I tend to think of it as making peace with them ✨🌿
I think it's about giving yourself space to grow. If you cherish or grab onto things from your past too much, you might miss out on opportunities or feel skeptical about taking a leap.
We should know our past, but growth requires constant changing and reinvention of the self.
I’m still trying to learn it, the hard way- not to hold on to the past. I’m not sure of my progress but reading your post definitely made me feel better :)
I am glad you found some value in my words. It’s definitely easier said than done. But we’re all figuring this out as we go and I’m sure you’ll be able to do the same too✨
I think it's important that we hold onto certain aspects of our past, they are indeed part of who we are today. But on the flip side, there are those areas that are deemed on reflection to be holding us back, so we could perhaps let go of these.
What an important reminder, especially this time of the year! Thank you Mansi!
I totally agree it’s not that we should forget the past, it’s just how re relate to the bad stuff. How wonderful that we can be compassionate and loving looking back now so the shadows don’t darken all the beautiful moments in between.
Our past, regardless of whether it was good or bad, defines our journey and our story. We may let go of some things, sure, but we must still be proud of getting through those challenging times and learn to appreciate/love ourselves a little more.
Thankyou for being here, I appreciate you so much!❤️
I hold on to a huge amount of the past; I find it offers a reassuring sense of continuity. That said, I think there are things I’ve had to let go of, but I tend to think of it as making peace with them ✨🌿
Well said David!
There’s so much I have learned from you here on Substack. Thank you for your generosity and wisdom ✨
Aww, thank you 🙏🌿✨
Wonderful take, Mansi.
I think it's about giving yourself space to grow. If you cherish or grab onto things from your past too much, you might miss out on opportunities or feel skeptical about taking a leap.
We should know our past, but growth requires constant changing and reinvention of the self.
I love the way you have summarised it Ahmedh!
Dwelling in the past may not be the best thing, but keeping those lessons close as you make choices for the future is important.
I’m still trying to learn it, the hard way- not to hold on to the past. I’m not sure of my progress but reading your post definitely made me feel better :)
Thank you Abhishek!
I am glad you found some value in my words. It’s definitely easier said than done. But we’re all figuring this out as we go and I’m sure you’ll be able to do the same too✨
Some lovely memories to hold on to.
I think it's important that we hold onto certain aspects of our past, they are indeed part of who we are today. But on the flip side, there are those areas that are deemed on reflection to be holding us back, so we could perhaps let go of these.
Thank you for the recommendation 🙏😊
I love that Debbie! You summarised it really well. Thank you. ❤️
Another beautiful post, I really enjoyed reading your list. It is lovely to sit and think of what my own list may look like. Thank you!
Thank you Emily, that's so kind of you to say.✨♥️
What an important reminder, especially this time of the year! Thank you Mansi!
I totally agree it’s not that we should forget the past, it’s just how re relate to the bad stuff. How wonderful that we can be compassionate and loving looking back now so the shadows don’t darken all the beautiful moments in between.
Absolutely true Carmen!
Our past, regardless of whether it was good or bad, defines our journey and our story. We may let go of some things, sure, but we must still be proud of getting through those challenging times and learn to appreciate/love ourselves a little more.
Thankyou for being here, I appreciate you so much!❤️
Our past is a part of us whether we like it or not. We might as well make something positive out of it.
Absolutely! 💯