23 Lessons In 23 Years
Everything I learned in 23 years of my existence.
I celebrated my 23rd birthday on 12th. While I am grateful for all the experiences and opportunities I have encountered in all these years, I can’t help but think about the challenges I had to overcome to be where I am today.
Adulting is not easy. You feel in control of your life for a minute. But the very next second, you feel as lost as you could ever be.
I may not be the best navigator of my life at all times, but here are 23 lessons I learned in 23 years of my life.
You are allowed to follow your own timeline in life.
It’s easier to navigate change when you are surrounded by loved ones.
NEVER take your health for granted.
Sometimes, getting out of your comfort zone leads to some of the best experiences in life.
Adulting is one of the hardest things you’ll do in life. So be kind to yourself and your peers.
Being a good friend is a quality that is always appreciated.
Self-awareness is the greatest gift you can give to yourself.
A wholesome life consists of one thing: BALANCE.
Saving money is amazing. But there is no harm in treating yourself with small gifts every once in a while.
Your job title does not define your worth.
Reading books exposes you to a world you never even knew existed. It allows your mind to wander and dream.
To-Do lists will be your saviour on overwhelming days.
My mentor/bestie once told me: You are rich if you have money. You are wealthy if you have time.
Always try to keep a journal consistently. It is the best reflection of self-growth that you might lose sight of.
Who you are and what you value will change as you grow older and it’s OKAY.
Spending less time in the virtual world and more time in the real world will protect your mental peace.
Learn to value yourself. Because if you don’t, the rest of them won’t either.
Pursuing interests that you don’t intend to transform into a source of income are great happiness boosters.
Everything falls into place at the right time. We can choose how much effort to put in but can never get ahead of time.
You are way cooler if you can find comfort in your own company.
You have to start somewhere to get somewhere.
The world needs less judgement and more kindness. Be kind, not judgemental.
Gratitude keeps you grounded. Pause and appreciate the little things in life often.
I hope you found something of value in this newsletter. What is your biggest learning in life so far? Feel free to comment below so that we all have something to learn from each other! :)
#12 and #13 - YES!
My add: It's never too late to start again.
I hear so many of my friends say they don't want to start over (in a job, career, city, relationship) and so they stay stuck (at 27 years old or 30 or however old)!